I just don't understand the point of joining a forum to ask a specific question and then when it gets answered completely ignore it and keep ranting about the same issue.
13 minutes is the MAX PT score for the run for the 17-21 and 22-26 age groups. No way in HELL anyone is getting sent home for not making 13 minutes. You only need FIFTY PERCENT passing to graduate basic training. Yes, that's right, you read it correctly: a private can graduate BCT but fail the APFT by Army standards. Only before graduating AIT does the soldier need to score the 60%.
Either you are blowing this out of proportion, your son is freaking out and believing every word they say, or your son is not telling you the whole story (like he got caught doing something he wasn't supposed to or something). Two things I can tell you for CERTAIN though:
1) You son is getting at least two too many phone calls during BCT, and
2) You didn't pay attention to one iota of my post. I wouldn't and have no reason to lie to you or steer you in the wrong direction. BCT is a game where the privates are pawns and the drill sergeants and cadre are every other piece. The purpose is to make the privates think they can be sacrificed like pawns and scare the crap out of them. It doesn't do any good to get worked up over what your son is telling you, and if you TRULY want to help him, tell him he better do what the hell the drill sergeants are saying because if he doesn't you don't know if you're going to pick his ass up at the airport.
The problem, it seems, is that your son was coddled at home. He's not used to NOT being coddled so he's calling the people who coddled him throughout his life for support and you guys are playing right into it. It's like a less-dangerous version of helping out someone with a drug problem.
Trust me when I tell you that BCT is a learning experience. Not just for him, but you as well. This is where you learn that all those years you spent raising your son weren't for naught and hopefully he graduates and shows you he can survive on his own with his own common sense and his own "survival instincts."
No one is getting sent home for not maxing their APFT when you don't even need to score the passing score to graduate. Unless he does something wrong, as in punches a drill sergeant or something, he's not coming home. My point in the first post was, however, that you do NOT tell him that. Let him believe everything they tell him and sort out the BS on his own.
When I was in BCT there was that spy plane or whatever shot down over China. We had no contact with the outside world and the drill sergeants told us they were accelerating the BCT process to get enough soldiers ready to attack China. My bunkmate started bawling. I started laughing. It's just a game.