Okay I know this is kind of a taboo subject in the military, but I think we all kind of know that it happens. I have never been deployed, but I have heard the stories. My husband and I have been married 6 years and are going into our first deployment. We are deploying w/the same BDE, but not going to the same area of the country with little hope of seeing each other during the year-long deployment. Our marriage is not the best, we have legally separated and almost filed for divorce. There's never been physical cheating in our marriage, but emotional cheating. I am having some issues as it gets close to time for him to leave b/c 1., He is in a BSB and there's tons of females. 2., The last time we separated he showed an interest in one of the females he works with. No, he has not been in any type of contact w/her outside of work since we decided to stay together, but I am still worried he is attracted to her. I guess my question to the married soldiers, and any spouses that may be on here, is how do you go through deployments worrying about this kind of thing? Or stop worrying about it? I'm a spouse, but I'm also a soldier and I see how a lot of male and female soldiers act and it's pretty bad, so it's not like I can pretend the shit doesn't happen. Any advice or experience any of you can share for this situation?