To make a long story short. I am currently station here in Korea (been here command sponsored since June 2007). I am on assignment to 2BD 4ID @ Carson come 10 Sept. My current DEROS is 19 July; My BNCOC report date is 11 July @ FT Lee. I put a curtailment in at the end of January to have my DEROS Adjusted to 2 June so I can get my wife and daughters situated back in the states. I found out today it made it up to 19 ESC G1 and got sent back to BDE S1. I called up to BDE and the MSG said the COL disapproved it. The MSG said she will try to see if the COL will have a change of mind again but this COL is a ..well lets put it this way.... she is for herself and thats all... she has many complaints on her already. Anyway, that MSG pretty much told me that I will have to cancel my BNCOC date and try to get a new BNCOC date when i get to my new unit. I find this hard to believe.. this unit is going to deploy 6-8 month after I get there and most likely they will not send me to BNCOC as soon as I get there. I informed the BDE CSM about this and he said he will look into my issue. I jsut dont get how this COL operates. What can I do.. do I have to suck it up.. it really urks me... there is a SSG that has less than 6 years jsut got off recruiting duty , never been deployed and sent to BNCOC while stationed here and due back within 2 weeks. I have been an NCO longer than he has been in the Army.. I feel really screwed here.. but it hasnt been the 1st time.