my name is jason i have been in the army for 3years and never had a neg counseling i was up to go to the board when I made a big mistake and am now being investigated on false allegations with witnesses FOR MY BEHALF when i found out i told my psg and squad leader to give them a heads up so they wouldn't be blind sided cause they always told me they would always try to help me but it back fired since then my psg has made my life hell he first wrote a neg counseling stating i broke the army value witch i agreed on that only cause i put myself in the situation and had a party at my house i lost my leave so i couldn't get my family so i could bring them back to the island so i asked them if i could get a memo so i could have them take a mac flight to live with me they denied that so i paid for them because they were about to be homeless i was trying to get command sponsorship for them and he told me i couldn't because i erd them when i deployed and all my kids appointments and wife's appointments would have to be on my own time even trying to get them in school would have to be on my own time i explained my wife does not have a license and would not be able to do this and he said its not his problem i could do it during lunch even though i live 20mins away from base i explained that i would not be able and he tells me well that sucks i shouldn't brought them to hawaii then. i explained again i had no choice because they were gonna be homeless and i haven't seen my family in a year and half also i begged him and he still denied me i told him i wanted to talk to 1sg and he said it would not change cause 1sg is the one that told him to do this. then i told him in a calm voice sgt then i am gonna contact the IG cause this is not right so after this he told me to go ahead because they will tell me the same thing that if they not command sponserd then it will not matter so i did research and found out since i was told to erd my wife cause she was pregnant and high risk before i deployed i could get command sponsorship it will be hard but i should be able because it was medical hardship now with 3kids i was angry that they were doing this to me so i went to family advocacy they called my 1sg and he called me in to talk to me i told him why i went and he said he was tracking from my psg that i have sent them home erd cause of a domestic dispute i said no that is not true i showed him the paper work and the psg didn't like that i was right and he got caught in a lie now today he wrote me a neg counseling statement stating that i disrespected him when we were talking about the command sponsorship so i thought i recorded the convo cause it would of saved my butt but i didn't... before i realized that! i talked to the 1sg and told him he was lying and i had it recorded he said to bring it in but i didn't record it and now im gonna look bad but my psg is doing the same thing to another soldier and recommending article 15 what can i do how do i deal with this cause they are always gonna believe a nco over a spc no matter what i am at edge and just reenlisted for 4 yrs and loved the army but it seems like there is no help for soldiers in my situation he does not like me and is making my family and my life hell putting me on details on weekends witch i don't care about but if i lose my rank for all these lies i will not be able to take care of my family also my career is gonna be ruined cause i don't no how much longer i can keep my military bearing and not really disrespect him there is like 7 soldiers that he does not like and get treated the same way PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!