I am a specialist in the medical field. My SGT is relatively new to her division however she has been working on this base longer than i have. When she came to her new division, i was the one that trained her on everything. Now, 6 months later, she is in charge and runs things here and i do as i am told like a good soldier. However she has gotten to the point that she tries to bust me on every little thing.
It started with a counseling statement when my civilian supervisor told her that i left without finishing my work and didnt tell her. However i had told my civilian supervisor that morning and 10 min before i left that my wife had an appointment at 1030 and that i had to drive her. My SGT then gave me a counseling on the importance of responsibility and placing the mission first, however the appointment is supposed to be my place of duty, same goes for my wife. Though she is not military, she doesnt drive and her appointment was with the on post clinic. I told my SGT what happend and how i had told the supervisor that i had an appointment and she had known about it all along and that the task i had to complete, i was not qualified to do on my own without her assistance. My SGT said that she didnt care and that i was still responsible. The NCO then gave me a 4000 word essay hand written with words only above 4 letters counting. and also i had to keep a log book for 30 days and state what i was doing every hour at work and get initials from a supervisor.
I failed to complete the essay on time. i was on TDY and i just didnt do it that was my fault. I did try to complete it so the last night i stayed up for 36 hours working on it. i only got half way done and i turned it in as such. Logically, she re issued the essay and said that i had until tomorrow morning at 8 to turn it in. i completed it but it wasnt only my handwritting. i typed up the essay, but my hand had starting cramping after 12 hours of writing so my wife wrote what i had typed. after turning the essay in she gave me another counseling because the essay wasnt written by only me. I tried to explain that i had been up for 50 hours doing those essays for her and hadnt slept in almost 3 days, had to skip my psychology class to get it completed, and that i wasnt able to write the entire essay because eventually my hand just locked up. It took two people working until 0520 in the morning to finish it, but she didnt care even though that meant had my wife not helped me i couldnt have possibly finished.
After this, i was tasked to write myself a counseling statement and to do what it said. i had tasked myself to write a 500 word essay, on the importance of responsibility and duty to the mission. Additionally i stated that for the next 15 days if i were to leave for an appointment, i must get my supervisors signature stating that they understand what work i am leaving behind. However for that entire period, i scheduled all of my appointments and wife's appointments during my lunch period so that i didnt take time out of work. One of the days, i had lunch coverage (meaning that i stay back until someone else is there to watch the place and do any work that comes in) however i had talked with the other specialist and she had left at 11 to go take her husband out to lunch, when she came back at 12, i left for my lunch and to take my wife to her appointment. Now, my SGT is saying that i failed to perform my corrective training of obtaining a signature. I had told her no SGT, i never left due to an appointment. i only left for my lunch and went to my appointment during that time. Afterwards she found the date that the specialist had came back early and relieved me for lunch. I tried to exlain to her that it was still my lunch but she just said that i was pushing her buttons and making her mad. So now i think my last option is to go to the 1SG.
She doesnt seem to care about the truth at all, she just focuses on a reason to give me a negative counseling. and now i have to give a 30 min class on the importance of responsibility.
It is just seeming like i have a target on my back and she just keeps trying to find things to get me for.
Please give me advice.