Ok here we go. I dont know what to do so I'm seeking advise. My husband came home on R&R. I was so excited! He stayed the first night with me just cause he was drunk. He claimed he didnt like my puppy and the house was a mess. Yes the dog trashed my kitchen and there were some boxes in the living room to move but thats beside the point. I had asked him to help with the boxes because i had surgery recently and am not supposed to be lifting things and he said that was fine.
Well he walked out the next day (tue.) and never returned. I have his assault pack and his uniform and all still here. He even left his leave paperwork. I was tried to get everything done he asked cause I want him home. Tue night I hurt my back so bad I ended up in the ER.
While I was there he came home with someone and picked up the truck leaving me without a vehicle. He wouldnt even come home for that.
The house is done. The dog is gone.Everything he has asked of me is finished. He still wont bring back a vehicle or come home. I am totally stranded.
He did text me last night when I said I had taken the dog to a shelter asking me over and over how it felt to kill my puppy. Now he's trying to get me kicked out of the apt. He has been staying with some girl the past few days. I don't know what to do or what I can do. I am living off an allotment right now cause I've been out of work. I am looking for a job to hold me over until I can drop the weight to join the military. He has been threatening with divorce since he left and going between I hate you and I love you. What can i do if he doesnt return the truck (which is in both our names) and if he doesnt give me enough for bills next month?
Adding - I just got a message. Im begging him to come home and he will think about it depend on how his date tonight goes.