I am scheduled to go TDY for ALC at the beginning of August and the course lasting through the end of September. I also just recently arrived to this unit. I really want to go to ALC but the timing is bad. My wife is expecting in mid September and im being forced to go anyway. My command was aware my spouse and myself are expecting but didnt take it into consideration. i really dont want to miss the child birth but i dont want to get on the commands bad side either.